Since COVID-19 reared its ugly head, we have all gone through so much together. We have mourned the unimaginable loss of life. We have worried about family and friends. We have gained new respect for front line workers. We have missed things we took for granted like haircuts and hugs.
In the beginning there was a sense of disbelief. Then it all began to sink in as life as we knew it changed from month to month. Talking to other people, yes, many on Zoom which I’d never heard of before, I realized how many of us were going through the same stages.
In September, pandemic brain set in. There was some forgetfulness, with a dash of anxiety and depression. Insomnia was a given. We felt like we looked pretty good without makeup and that matching masks made our outfits. We were walking our dogs five times a day.
By December, we were feeling pandemic fatigue. There was a sense of exhaustion as the numbers climbed and the holidays were put on hold. I did laundry on new years eve.
ELBEE That is very responsible but sad.
We still have a long way to go until we reach the new normal. It’s hard to be patient and deal with the restrictions. The unbelievable is still the reality.
More and more I hear people saying, “I’m so over it.” They want to move on. I can’t disagree. Not to minimize the big picture, but the day to day changes are wearing thin. Here are some of my issues.
ELBEE Again with the issues.
I’m tired of constantly being referred to as the “elderly.”
ELBEE If the orthopedic shoe fits, wear it.
I look better in makeup. I want to wear it when I go out instead of in front of the computer.
ELBEE Amen to that.
As for masks, I have to remind myself that they’re a safety precaution and not a fashion choice. I never even liked wearing them on Halloween.
GUS & STANLEY She has that black sequined one that’s quite attractive.
I’m tired of not recognizing people in their masks and looking like a robber when I go into the bank. I wish that I could just run into the market without taking my life in my hands.
I’m also wish that I could share the Doods in person and not just on Zoom. I want to let them be social on our walks. I want to take them back into the hospital so that patients can cuddle with them.
I confess that with all of the sheltering in place, Gus, Stanley and I have become very codependent but I don’t have an issue with that.
GUS & STANLEY Sorry but we could use a little alone time.
We may be “over it” but we have to do what it takes to hang in there. If that means playing cards with your dogs, go for it.
Set design and photos by Doug Morrow
ELBEE Seriously?
