In this uncertain world where watching the news can give you stomach pains, I thought it would be a good idea to focus on the positive.
ELBEE That is way too much information.
First, thank you to my husband Doug, my daughters, sons-in-law and grandchildren. My life would have so many empty spaces without you. A shout out to Jennifer for doing Thanksgiving. I am grateful that we could be together and that all I had to bring were my fabulous stuffing and sweet potatoes.
ELBEE Seriously?
Thank you to Doug for his steady support during the pandemic and for coming to
terms with the fact that Henry is getting larger by the day
I truly appreciate the friends in my life. COVID-19 made it difficult for us to see each other but I always knew you were there. When you shared that my writing was bringing you joy, you brought me joy.
I am also grateful for the memories of family and 
friends who are gone but 
whose loving presence guides me. I will always hear the laughter of my brother Stan and my dear friend Eileen.
The mountains are still my spiritual space, my sanctuary. Standing on an overlook with the ocean in the distance gives me peace. Thank you to my mountain friends. We may not know each others’ names but I treasure our camaraderie.
I want to acknowledge the older couple who have made it their mission to clean up trash on the trails. I frequently see them coming down with bags full which is inspiring but sad at the same time.
Thank you to the bike riders who have finally gotten bells and actually say “thank you” when you move over to let them pass instead of trying to run you down.
ELBEE She can’t get past her issues with the bikers and that last statement is a bit sarcastic for a gratitude list.
I am deeply grateful that I have been able resume in-person visits with Gus and Stanley. A year and a half of Zoom calls was better than nothing but seeing them interact with patients, family and staff is heartwarming. I have been so touched by the incredible welcome back that we have received at UCLA and at Tarzana Hospital.
I feel so fortunate to be able to continue on this therapy dog journey that began fifteen years ago with Charley and then Elbee. The Doods have taught me about kindness, healing and unconditional love. They have filled me with gratitude.
ELBEE Finally it’s about us.
And I can still bench press them!
HENRY I didn’t sign up for this.
ELBEE I feel your pain.
